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The Modern Definition of a "Good Man"

The Modern Definition of a "Good Man"

It's not as easy as it used to be... The definition of what a “good man” is, has probably changed a hundred times in the last 300 years. As I hear stories from my girlfriends, see the portrayals of adulterous men in movies and shows, and date as a single mom in the 21st century, I am appalled at what’s accepted of male behavior these days. I’ve realized recently that I’m quite old-fashioned. What I believe about dating and love is now out-dated. It seems like so many people around me are dating and/or sleeping with multiple people, cheating on...

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The Equality of Craving

The Equality of Craving

I have called my spirit back to me. Many times. Sometimes during prayer or meditation. Other times, I've called it when I'm desperate, silently screaming into the wind. Today, I did it again, and instead of my soul, I found answers and grief. Maybe it’s the same thing.I was reading a book about a group of women meditating together in a dark cave, remembering that they come from the earth. Remembering the womb they come from, remembering their own need to feel connected to their femininity. I pictured myself vicariously in that cave with that group of women. It’s a...

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A New Kind of Winning

A New Kind of Winning

Learning to See What We are Not Looking For. I see the future coming. Sometimes, I see the past. Or other timelines. Stories that no one has told. Or stories that have been told but not believed. There is much we are not ready to hear. Information that we silently beg for, but when it comes time to know, we don’t want to. The human race has been reaching for more information for centuries. When strange answers come, we cower from them. We say it must not be so. We turn away. We watch movies to push the real truths...

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"On Finding My Life"

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"On Finding My Life"

Right here, right now. I keep waiting for the flowers of my life to open. Not the ones that face outward from the center, but the ones that face in. On paper, it’s a good life, the one I live. There’s the adorable old house, near the downtown of a growing, quirky city. There’s the job that is incredibly easy, lucrative and rewarding. The beautiful, amazing children that I get to call my own. I have my health. I have more to celebrate than many others do. Aside from romantic love and a supportive family, there are flowers blooming all...

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"Owning My Nature"

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"Owning My Nature"

"An Intuitive’s Discovery of Self-Acceptance" I know what I am. I’ve known since I was a girl, but I didn’t know how to say it, before now. I’ve always been drawn to the elements, aspects of nature as if it were food. I can feel the breath of what is, hear it’s song that is silent to the human ear. I feel an expansiveness grow beyond my skin when I am in this connected state. In the quiet moments of my childhood, I felt a communication with rocks, soil, trees, animals. I never even had to think about whether or...

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